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September 30, 2008 --
As I opened my eyes at 6 AM on
Saturday September 20th, I knew that today we were going to raise awareness
for Chiari and/ or Syringomyelia. As I got in the car to go to the site I
started to feel a little nervous. I just kept saying to myself this day will
change the lives of many people dealing with the disorder. As I arrived to
the site I had three of my volunteers waiting for me as I put the signs with
the purple balloons out on the street for those who weren’t familiar with
the area. I also wanted to draw an outside crowd so the signs helped. As we
started getting set up people were taking a gander at the tables and our
poster board that my wife Robin had put together. We got everything in order
just in time as the participants started to arrive.
As I started to get the kids over
to the face painter I was tapped on my shoulder by a woman that I had been
speaking with for a few months, but had not had the opportunity to meet in
person. I was able to go and meet most of the people that were there for
themselves or for their family member. The people were coming from all over
New Jersey so I had my registration time from 8:30 to 10:00 AM. As 10:00
approached I noticed a few faces that were missing so I made a brief
announcement at 10:00 letting everyone know that we are here for a great
cause and the awareness is important in telling your friends or family about
CM/SM. We gathered up all the participants around 10:15 and I thanked
everyone once again for their time and their ears for listening to what we
were there to do.
I began the walk with my daughter
Caitlin and 2 of my nieces Sara and Amy. We started our journey down the
boardwalk with clear blue skies and a nice breeze just to remind you that
you were walking along the Atlantic Ocean. As we were walking people were
stopping and asking what was Chiari and what were we out doing. It happened
all along the walk with different people talking to bystanders wanting to
know more about Chiari and Syringomyelia. During the walk we had a few
volunteers stay at the tables for people walking by. We had one gentleman
approach the table look at the sign and say “that’s what I have”. My wife
talked with him briefly and was given my information for next years walk. As
we turned back after 1.4 miles we had the same thing going back. That would
be people stopping and seeing all these people with the same shirts walking
together . The walk took about thirty minutes, but it wasn’t about the time
or length of the walk. It was about seeing everyone’s family and friends out
supporting the cause.
As we all returned to the starting
point there was a raffle that I had planned for door prizes. We were able to
put together 19 items to draw numbers for. It was to show my appreciation
for everyone coming to the walk. I picked back up the microphone and grabbed
all the children at the walk. I had them each pick a number and try and read
it if not I would call the numbers. It made the drawing interesting and it
was funny trying to hear some of my nieces and nephews trying to say the
numbers. All 19 items were gone and I still got some sounds from the crowd
wanting more.
That brought me to next year, as I
discussed our plans for the site location. We had over 100 people come to
the walk. I was hoping that we could double the number by next year. I was
able to talk with most of the participants, but there was a lot going on and
I saw chiarians talking to one another which made my day. Once again I
thanked everyone today for coming and said my goodbyes.
Today was one of the best days of
my life since I was diagnosed in 2000. Most of the people there with CM/SM
have been keeping their stories to themselves. This walk has put a different
outlook on how we deal with the disorder. I talked with several people who
have never met or talked with anyone who had Chiari and/or Syringomyelia.
I was honored to represent New
Jersey and having three months to put the walk together gave my wife Robin
and I high hopes for next year. As we will have a full year to plan and I
already have a group to volunteer for next year’s walk.
I would like to thank Conquer
Chiari for putting this event together and giving me the opportunity to
represent them. I had the time of my life-------and it’s only just begun
-- Thank you, Brian Murphy

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